There is a specific kind of silence that follows a conversation you never wanted to have. Maybe it happened over dinner, or maybe it was a phone call that changed everything. Regardless of how the news arrived, if the divorce wasn't your idea, you’re likely feeling a whirlwind of shock, betrayal, and a terrifying sense that your future has been hijacked. When a marriage ends against your will, it feels like life is happening to  you. You’re being ushered into a legal process