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Co-Parenting with a Narcissist: Holiday Survival Guide
Parallel parenting with a narcissistic co-parent can present unique challenges, especially during the holidays. Navigating this situation...
Se'Lena Wingfield, Ph.D.
4 min read


Beyond Divorce: Embracing the Next Chapter
Divorce often feels like the end of a story, a period at the close of a significant chapter in one's life. However, it's crucial to...
Se'Lena Wingfield, Ph.D.
2 min read


Coping with Rage: The Dual Role of Anger as a Mechanism and Messenger
The idea that a fit of anger is often a projection of innermost negative feelings is rooted in psychological concepts, particularly those...
Se'Lena Wingfield, Ph.D.
2 min read


Owning Your Mistakes Can Benefit You
Recognizing and taking responsibility for one's mistakes is a crucial aspect of healthy and successful relationships. Here are some key...
Se'Lena Wingfield, Ph.D.
2 min read


Choose Your Battles - Conflict Resolution
Let's discuss the importance of choosing your battles when disagreeing with others. This is a valuable skill in maintaining healthy...
Se'Lena Wingfield, Ph.D.
2 min read


8 Tips for Co-parenting Success
Co-parenting can be challenging, especially with strained relationships. Learn strategies for effective parallel parenting, prioritizing chi
Se'Lena Wingfield, Ph.D.
2 min read


Unlocking Success: The Essential Post-Session Questions for Growth
Asking questions to assess your performance in a conflict resolution session and identify areas for improvement can offer several...
Se'Lena Wingfield, Ph.D.
2 min read


Surviving a Narcissist: 12 Common Triggers Exposed
Dealing with a narcissist in your life can be an emotionally draining and challenging experience. Whether it's a family member, friend,...
Se'Lena Wingfield, Ph.D.
2 min read


In the Midst of Letting Go: Discovering Freedom to Be Yourself
Life is a journey of constant evolution, filled with moments of growth, change, and transformation. At times, we find ourselves entangled...
Se'Lena Wingfield, Ph.D.
2 min read


Conflict: A Catalyst for Self-Discovery
Conflicts, whether they arise in our personal relationships, at work, or within our families, are often viewed as troublesome and...
Se'Lena Wingfield, Ph.D.
2 min read


Moving Forward: The Next Chapter After Divorce
Divorce is a chapter in your life, not the whole story. It's a significant event that can bring immense challenges, emotions, and...
Se'Lena Wingfield, Ph.D.
2 min read


Mindful Responses vs. Impulsive Reactions: Understanding Emotional Control and Self-Regulation
In the study of human behavior, the dichotomy between mindful responses and impulsive reactions holds significant importance. The ability...
Se'Lena Wingfield, Ph.D.
2 min read


Why Marriage Mediation is as Important as Date Night and Vacations
Mediation can help strengthen relationships in a way similar to date nights and vacations by providing a dedicated time and space for...
Se'Lena Wingfield, Ph.D.
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Balancing Time: The Delicate Dance Between Marriage and Personal Pursuits
In life, finding the right balance between nurturing your marriage and pursuing your own interests is something many couples work on. How...
Se'Lena Wingfield, Ph.D.
2 min read


Overcoming Racism Together: Fostering Unity and Dialogue in Your Relationship
In today's diverse world, navigating the complexities of racism and its impact on relationships can be a challenging journey. It's not...
Se'Lena Wingfield, Ph.D.
2 min read


Taming Unmet Expectations: Navigating Towards a Fulfilling Relationship
In the journey of love, couples often find themselves facing the challenge of unmet expectations. These unspoken hopes and desires can...
Se'Lena Wingfield, Ph.D.
2 min read


Navigating Conflicting Standpoints on the Subject of Children: A Journey to Cooperative Parenting
When it comes to raising children, couples often find themselves at odds due to differing beliefs and values. These conflicting...
Se'Lena Wingfield, Ph.D.
2 min read


Embrace Parenting Harmony: Nurturing Unity Through Marriage Mediation
Parenthood is a remarkable journey filled with moments of joy, growth, and shared experiences. However, it's not uncommon for the...
Se'Lena Wingfield, Ph.D.
2 min read


The Hidden Load: How Division of Housework Can Overwhelm and Cause Conflict in a Marriage
Maintaining a harmonious and balanced household requires more than just love and understanding. The division of housework plays a...
Se'Lena Wingfield, Ph.D.
2 min read


Maximizing Outcomes: The Advantages of Hiring a Trauma-Informed Mediator
Here are three potential benefits of hiring a trauma-informed mediator: Improved communication: Trauma can impact a person's ability to...
Se'Lena Wingfield, Ph.D.
1 min read
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