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The Body Keeps the Argument: How Conflict Gets Stored in Your Physiology
Your shoulders are still tight.Your chest feels heavy. You ’re restless, drained, or oddly wired for hours after an argument. Even when the situation is resolved, your body seems stuck in the moment. That lingering tension isn’t imaginary — and it’s not a personality flaw. It’s your physiology remembering the stress of conflict. Your body doesn’t just experience arguments emotionally. It experiences them biologically — and sometimes it holds onto that activation longer than
Se'Lena Wingfield, Ph.D.
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The Emotional Hangover After Conflict — And Why It Lingers
Have you ever walked away from an argument thinking, “It’s over”… but your body and mood didn’t get the memo? Maybe hours later you still feel drained. Irritable. Foggy. Heavy. You replay the conversation in your head or feel strangely unsettled for the rest of the day. That lingering state has a name — even if most people never call it this: An emotional hangover. And just like a physical hangover, it’s your system recovering from stress. Understanding why this happens can
Se'Lena Wingfield, Ph.D.
3 min read
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